Flower meanings are tradition rather than rules, and they change from one culture to another. Treat this as a guide, and choose what the person actually likes.
Common associations
- Red roses: romantic love.
- Pink roses: gratitude, admiration and affection.
- White lilies: peace and remembrance, which makes them a common choice for condolences.
- Sunflowers: warmth and cheerfulness.
- Tuberoses: fragrance and celebration. In Pakistan, they are familiar at weddings and gatherings.
- Chrysanthemums: long life and loyalty in many Asian traditions, though in some European countries they are linked to funerals.
A practical note on lilies
Lilies are poisonous to cats, and their pollen stains fabric. If the recipient has a cat, choose something else. Some hospital wards also restrict strongly scented flowers, so it is worth checking first.